Monday, May 13, 2019
Some people use many words but say very little.
Some use few words but convey much.
In the 15+ years I knew Joe DeMaio his actions, gestures and short phrases spoke volumes. As a grandson-in-law he immediately treated me as family. Although his most common phrase to me was actually a word, "Eat", it was really an invitation to a personal relationship with the family. It was a subtle lesson on the value of family, keeping them close, sharing time together, giving of the fruits of your labor, and giving thanks to Him from which all good things come.
I remember being at his shore house and asking where "Grandfather Joe was" on a beautiful summer afternoon. I'd hear from his daughter, he's in his room saying his afternoon prayers. More lessons with no words involved - these were: the power of conversing with God, praying in a private place where only God can see you, praying unceasingly, and true faith. All Biblical lessons with no verses actually spoken. This was better then the "best" sermons I've heard, most of which I do not remember a single word from.
It is such a testament to a man to leave a legacy of Godly IMPACT in his children, extended family. and friends. It is really all that matters in life.
I am blessed for having known you Grandfather Joe. I'll never forget how every time I saw you asked how my family and I was doing. I'll never forget these now often lost forms of interpersonal communication.
Thank you so much. Not a goodbye but looking forward to a new banquet with you in a perfect place.
In Sincere Appreciation,
Lorenzo
