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Pamela Piscatelli Faber posted a condolence
Monday, August 3, 2020
Dearest Patty, Wendy, Jon, Jennifer, and Lori, My deepest condolences to all of you. I vividly remember meeting Spencer as a little kid, when Rocky Top was under construction. We were so excited to hear that Wendy and Jon were Sandy's and my age and were part of the package! Drew was a baby and Jen you were a baby bump and Lori, just a twinkle in their eyes!
As long as one knows this deep a loss is coming, it is still so painful when it happens. My heart goes out to all of you. Your father lead a well-lived life. Family, friends,career, golf, planes, skiing, travel---he knew how to do it right! My fondness for him always ran deep--and the warmth I guess I associated with his name lead me to my naming my youngest Spencer--who happens to be off to law school next week! Hugs to you all, dear friends. Let the wonderful memories lift you up during this most difficult time. Love, Pam
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Krista Ericson posted a condolence
Saturday, August 1, 2020
He always had a twinkle in his eye and a smile! Such a kind and fun man. I feel so lucky to have known him! Loving thoughts to you all. Love, Krista
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Jared Bruggeman posted a condolence
Friday, July 31, 2020
Sorry to hear of the passing of Spencer. Clearly he was an amazing man with an wonderful wife and terrific family.
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Andrew , Janet Piscatelli posted a condolence
Friday, July 31, 2020
The Piscatelli Family mourns with all of you. Rest in peace dear Spencer.
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Richard and Lucy Lipari posted a condolence
Friday, July 31, 2020
Dear Patty,
We offer our sincere condolences. Spencer was a great lawyer, always sincere going the extra mile. He helped so many builders and made Staten Island what it is today. He had so many interests, and we enjoyed talking to him about our passions for flying. Especially remember the laughs we had going to Germany. He’ll be missed and remembered with love.
Rich and Lucy
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Susan Jerry Whoteman posted a condolence
Friday, July 31, 2020
Spencer was a special man we are lucky we had him all these years
Susan Jerry whiteman
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Daniel Goldberg MD posted a condolence
Friday, July 31, 2020
Spencer was a kind and accomplished man who was generous in friendship]. He will be missed by friends and family.
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Abbey Feiler posted a condolence
Thursday, July 30, 2020
My childhood was spent with the Gaines family. This is a family that was led by a patriarch like no other. Warm and loving memories will stay in my heart.
With love and sympathy,
Abbey
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Christinr Doran posted a condolence
Thursday, July 30, 2020
A Truly brilliant man , with a warm heart and wonderful smile .
Deepest Sympathy to you all
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Noelle Smith Citterio posted a condolence
Thursday, July 30, 2020
Spencer was a special and kind man. Our thoughts are with the Gaines family for their enormous loss. Warmest regards, Noelle, Werner, Aidan & Alia
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Brooke Smith posted a condolence
Thursday, July 30, 2020
Our deepest sympathies. Spencer was a special man and we’ll always remember him fondly. You’re all in our prayers.
Love,
Brooke and Dean
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Helen Deocampo posted a condolence
Thursday, July 30, 2020
Dear Patti and family,
Paul and I were so saddened to learn of Spencer’s passing. We remember him as a pleasant ,kind person. We know his struggle was long, he is at peace now. Please accept our sincere sympathy.
Helen and Paul Deocampo
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Jessa and Matthew Friedrich posted a condolence
Thursday, July 30, 2020
Dear Aunt Patty and family,
We were deeply saddened by the news of Uncle Spencer passing. We send our deepest heartfelt sympathies to you all during this difficult time. Spencer was such a kind, genuinely good person and his loss leaves an impossible to fill hole in our family. In all the memories I have of him, he is smiling in them.
Sending our love,
Jess and Matt
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Kerry Bettenhausen posted a condolence
Thursday, July 30, 2020
Dear Patty and family,
We send our deepest condolences to you in
This time of sorrow. Spencer was a generous, loving man who always knew how to bring out the best in people. We send our love and wish you grace and comfort during this time. May he rest in loving peace.
Love, Kerry Bettenhausen, Michael and Liam Chatten
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Linda graves posted a condolence
Thursday, July 30, 2020
Alan was my attorney.Everytime I went to the office Mr Ginzburg and Spencer were always welcoming and kind... Sorruy for this Loss❤️
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Peter Sipp posted a condolence
Thursday, July 30, 2020
Sorry for your loss. Spencer was a great lawyer and was always kind and helpful to me- even when we were opponents.
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Jennifer Harvey posted a condolence
Thursday, July 30, 2020
I am so sorry for your loss. Your dad had a beautiful and full life of live, laughter and happiness. My thoughts and prayers to you and your family.
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richard a rosenzweig posted a condolence
Thursday, July 30, 2020
So sorry to hear. I was very fond of Spencer personally and professionally. He is certainly missed.
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Donald steinman posted a condolence
Thursday, July 30, 2020
Dear Allen,
My condolences to you and your family on the passing of your brother.
All our thoughts are with you.
Don Steinman
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Pete Weinman posted a condolence
Thursday, July 30, 2020
So sorry for your loss. Spencer was a great guy and he will be missed.
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Wednesday, July 29, 2020
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