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Craig Bogard posted a condolence
Monday, July 22, 2019
Lynn Ann and I were very, very saddened to hear of Gary's death. He was a wonderful gentleman and a great friend to the children of Aslan Youth Ministries. He will be missed by everyone who had the pleasure of knowing him. May God bring healing and peace to his family and all his friends.
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Patricia DiJulio lit a candle
Thursday, July 18, 2019
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I am so sorry to hear of the loss of Gary. My thoughts and prayers are with you Janet and your family.
Love always,
Pat
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Bernadette & Mark Harbour posted a condolence
Wednesday, July 17, 2019
What a beautiful remembrance of Gary and his family, a celebration of life, as he lived it fully. In this light, we'd like to share our memories of Gary & Di, that remind us of the fun we had with food and wine. We were lucky enough to enjoy Gary's famous Bolognese sauce that he labored over and cooked for hours, accompanied by a fine, Italian wine from his cellar. The four of us didn't talk much while enjoying the pasta, yet once the wine set in, we laughed for hours. We were also introduced to Mojitos, and don't recall the accompanying food, but sure remember the laughter and fun. Two years ago, we introduced an appetizer from Genoa to Gary and Di and they were so much fun to appreciate one of our favorite dishes: grilled artichokes, Genovese Pesto, and Tallegio cheese. The final foodie memory is showing Gary & Di the Passata Pizza sauce we used for home-made pizza, and Gary remarked in his usual, out-of-the box way, "Hey, Di, wouldn't this sauce make great Bloody Mary's?" Brilliant! He will surely be missed. We were looking forward to their visit to CA to visit the Central Coast Wineries, so we will be sending some to you to share with family and toast Gary so he can share too.
Love,
Bernadette & Mark
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Lisa Hendricks posted a condolence
Wednesday, July 17, 2019
Gary has a strong a loving family. He will be greatly missed. Sending our deepest condolences.
Robert and Lisa Hendricks
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Darlene and Bob Dilio posted a condolence
Tuesday, July 16, 2019
Deeply saddened that Gary left so soon. He was such a successful and accomplished person with a wonderful artistic talent. He Loved his family and will be missed by everyone!
Love
Darlene and Bob Dilio
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Beth Selsky posted a condolence
Tuesday, July 16, 2019
I am so sorry to hear of Gary's passing. I recall a few years back, he and Michael had a really enjoyable evening discussing music, books and history and maybe a drink or two. Gary made sure to seek me out the next time we met to mention that to me, and even seemed a little disappointed Mike wasn't there for that event. A special person no longer with us, but lasting memories. Peace to all the family.
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Deb Patton posted a condolence
Tuesday, July 16, 2019
Sharing in your sadness as we mourn Gary's passing. He was a good employer who became a wonderful friend. May he rest peacefully in God's arms. Praying Gary's loved ones find comfort in their memories and knowledge they are not alone in their grief. Remembering all of you in prayer.
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Gil Messina posted a condolence
Tuesday, July 16, 2019
Gary,
You will be missed more than you can imagine. As an older brother you taught me what family means. As my best friend, you taught me about life and made me see things in ways I only could through your eyes. You inspired me in more ways than you can imagine. Will miss you now, but will see you later.
Rest easy,
Gil
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Bev & Tony Trongone lit a candle
Monday, July 15, 2019
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Remembering a wonderful and loving cousin. Who gave so much during his life.
Bev & Tony
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Frank and Kathy Binetti posted a condolence
Monday, July 15, 2019
We are sorry to hear about Gary’s passing. He was such a fine gentleman and a treasure to so many. Our love and sympathy to his family and loved ones.
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