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Kevin Wiesehahn posted a condolence
Thursday, January 31, 2019
Rohin,
We don’t know each other. I was twelve or thirteen when you were born: I, a product of the now-unfathomable yet nostalgically fashionable Eighties, you practically tumbling from one millennium into another. I grew up in and around New York City, which means about an hour and a half north of where you grew up, if my memory of a couple of giddy teenage roadtrips to see concerts (John Mayer and Coldplay, respectively — laugh, Rohin, I dare you) at the PNC Bank Arts Center serves. So why am I writing to you?
Two reasons.
First, because I look back on all of my still-accessible childhood moments from the (believe me) much more awkward age of thirty-two, and I feel grateful. I feel grounded. For you, those moments were yesterday. For a time they were even, impossibly, a Today of which you were robbed. You, a bright, handsome, enthusiastic, well-adjusted young man, became sick and died. I understand this, and I rage against it. My words are nothing, as you, from your higher vantage, already comprehend. Down here, they’re pretty much all we have. I pray mine don’t reach you. I pray: Hear only the rage. Hear the rage in me, right now, wondering what your favorite movies were. It matters. Hear the rage in me wondering what you might have written about, and how you, at your particular moment in life, might have conceived of the practice of writing at all. And that of computer science, which you also loved. What were these bizarre creations-from-nothing to you? Hear the rage of me envisioning you, sometime in the future, as a regular at the amazingly cosy and crazy little East-Village pub where I served so many NYU students and people from all walks of life for three years during my twenties. Hear the rage of me, still living, project onto you the feeling of how much I already miss my parents. Hear, finally, the RAGE of this question: Did you have a first love? And this: Which childhood memory would have saved you, should you have become old and bitter?
Hear this rage. It’s how we say Love, down here.
Second, because I live in Munich now. Yes, yes: I’m friends with your cousin Adi. We finally understand one another, then, Rohin, you and I. Nobody signs on to the Holmdel Funeral Home homepage and writes something from his heart by chance. So let me cut to the chase. I’ve heard it said that when people die they take a piece of us with them. By the same logic, when we come to know someone in a meaningful way, they bring those pieces into the encounter with them. I write to you now to tell you that you are here, now, with us. Adi is the sole reason why I am a part of a tightly knit group of friends in this city. His generosity was evident from day one. By a chance invitation from a stranger, I showed up at a party at his apartment, stayed too long insisting that we watch the last 45 minutes of Stanley Kubrick’s 2001: A Space Odyssey, and in the end Adi insisted in turn that I sleep in his bed, while he, prince that he is, took to the couch. A year later, Adi and his circle are, to my joy, my Munich people. He has spoken to me of you several times. Once would have sufficed for me to know, on that intuitive level that is Love, that you are here, in him, with us. Don’t get me wrong, Rohin. You died. I know. It makes no sense.
Why then? Why speak?
I don’t know. We all die. Everything else being uncertain, maybe you’re there, maybe you hear the rage in spite of the words, maybe it will matter in eternity. Maybe it won’t. If nothing really matters in the end, then please at least rest assured that you are, through our friend Adi, whether eternity exists or not, a formative part of one little pocket of interpersonal happiness in the great gleaming disappearance-act of existence. It’s brutal here, but it’s also quite wonderful. May your moment return, here, again and again, to better ends.
With love and gratitude for all you still represent,
I am,
your friend beyond Space and Time,
Kevin Wiesehahn.
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Shaun Wang posted a condolence
Friday, January 25, 2019
Rohin was a treasured and loved member of NYU Goddard Hall's 2nd floor community. He will be remembered fondly and missed dearly.
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Ryan lit a candle
Tuesday, January 22, 2019
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Beautiful soul rest in peace
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Brandon posted a condolence
Monday, January 21, 2019
I'm very sorry to hear about your loss. Losing a loved one in death is such a difficult thing to cope with. Especially at such a young age. My heart goes out to the family and friends of Rohin during this time. Cherish the good memories together. Please find comfort in knowing that God views death as an "enemy" and will act to end it forever (1st Cor 15:26). God's Word also promises a time in the future where we can all have a hope of seeing our dead loved ones again (John 5:28,29). A beautiful hope. Take care.
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Bhushan Chauhan posted a condolence
Sunday, January 20, 2019
A true rising star taken away from us and we don't know why. Rohin's smiling face will never be forgotten. His calmness and determination were his greatest qualities. Our sincerest condolences to dearest Rakesh, Gaurika and Neha. May his soul rest in peace. Hey Ram.
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Ajay Chandele posted a condolence
Saturday, January 19, 2019
Dear Rakesh,Gaurika and Neha,
Please accept our sincere and heartfelt condolences.
A bright young spark snubbed so early.
May GOD give the Kushwaha family the strength to bear this tragic loss.
- Chandeles
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Basit Qari (NJIT) posted a condolence
Saturday, January 19, 2019
Dear Rakesh and Gaurika
I learned about your son Rohin last week via a common friend’s Facebook post. I regret missing the viewing and a chance to personally express my condolences.
Rohin’s passing is as tragic as it comes and will take some time to heal for you and your family. I hope and pray that your family finds strength from each other to cope with the loss. I’m deeply saddened to hear the departure of such a beautiful, talented and compassionate young man. My thoughts and prayers are with you, Gaurika and Neha. My sincere condolences.
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Shana Kushwaha lit a candle
Thursday, January 17, 2019
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Dear Rohin,
Someone as special as you will never be forgotten. Your gentle nature and smiley face will be missed but you will remain in our hearts forever.
Love,
Shana Aunty
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Paul Kushwaha posted a condolence
Thursday, January 17, 2019
Dear Rakesh
There is a great emptiness left by Rohin’s Passing but I’m certain that the strength of love that you, Gaurika and Neha share for each other will get you through this difficult time. May that love honour their memoriy and may you cherish the time you had together especially remember Rohin’s gentle spirit and loving nature. He will always be remembered as a specially giving person of great character. May the outpouring of love you have received since Rohin ‘s parting serve as a reminder to you and your family of how much he was loved by all who knew him. There are no words to express my sorrow for your loss but you will be in my thoughts and prayers always. May you find comfort and strength to cope this loss. May god bless you and you family. Thanks
Your brother
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Emily posted a condolence
Thursday, January 17, 2019
I am very sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to you in this difficult time. I hope you may find comfort at Revelation 21:4, “And he (God) will wipe out every tear from their eyes, and death will be no more, neither will mourning nor outcry nor pain be anymore. The former things have passed away.” We can look forward to the time when God will take away all reasons for distress and he even gives us a hope of a resurrection. (Acts 24:15) I hope this promise brings you comfort as it does me.
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SP VERMA posted a condolence
Thursday, January 17, 2019
Dear Rakesh Gaurika nd Neha....No words can express or match ur loss. Rohin has left behind a legacy of Passion, preservernce, affection nd his love for automation nd animations. Hope his soul finds Peace nd is reshaped to enlighten this world... Pls accept our heartfelt condolences.
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Jyoti anand lit a candle
Wednesday, January 16, 2019
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May the family find peace. So so sorry fior your loss.
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Seema and Pradeep posted a condolence
Wednesday, January 16, 2019
Our deepest condolences on this great loss. Rohin was a bright, brave and enthusiastic young man. Pradeep remembers him particularly for his smiling face and humble demeanor when he visited Mformation office. We hope Gaurika, Rakesh, and Neha find the strength and energy to bear this loss and honor his memory. May Rohin Rest In Peace.
Lots of Love.
-- Seema and Pradeep
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Kaja, Patrick & Baptiste posted a condolence
Wednesday, January 16, 2019
We never had the honor to meet Rohin but we knew how important he was and the impact he had on everyone around him, especially his cousin Aditya. We were told of his kindness and strength, despite his illness, that made him someone to look up to. It’s clear he was very much loved by those lucky enough to be in his life. Rohin will be truly missed but we know that his memory will be carried on by the Kushwaha family and all the people and friends whom he met along the way.
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Christian Aprile posted a condolence
Tuesday, January 15, 2019
Dear Rakesh, it is with great sadness that I have learnt of your loss. Please accept my sincerest condolences to you and your family. I wish you strength and courage in this difficult moment.
Christian
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Isabella Scala posted a condolence
Monday, January 14, 2019
I went to middle school with Rohin and got to see him this spring. He had the kindest heart and he will be dearly missed. My sincerest condolences to your family.
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Colin Grealish posted a condolence
Monday, January 14, 2019
Dear Rakesh,
I have no words to express the sorrow for your loss. I wish you peace, courage and loving memories in the days ahead.
Colin Grealish.
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Pusha posted a condolence
Monday, January 14, 2019
I couldn't get an Opportunity to see you Rohin but I know you were. Very lovable admired and.cherished by all , physically you are not with us but will ever remain in our hearts Dear Rakesh,Gaurika and Neha you are not alone to suffer we are all with you, may the almighty strengthen all to bear this loss Rest assured that our beloved Rohin will be in safe hands of our Heavenly Father
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Michael Conkling posted a condolence
Monday, January 14, 2019
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
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David Shimoni posted a condolence
Monday, January 14, 2019
Rakesh,
My deepest condolences to you and your family for the loss of Rohin! I have kids his age and cannot even imagine how it feels to loss a child so prematurely. May you find strength at these difficult times.
All the best, David Shimoni
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Meenu kushwaha lit a candle
Monday, January 14, 2019
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He will always be with us in our thoughts & prayer, God bless him, where ever he is
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Amreeta Choudhury (Mini) posted a condolence
Monday, January 14, 2019
Rohin was one of the youngest in our group of family friends. He holds a special place in my family. I remember memories of us discussing Star Wars and playing with everyone. The very first time I babysat was with Rohin and Neha. They were so perfect and nice and didn't let me work at all. I remember pizza was ordered and they both set the table for me, made sure I was comfortable and we played Wii tennis. I remember playing with Rusty and memories of spending Christmas together. Rohin was very mature and smart and just one of the coolest kids I knew. I just can't believe that he is not here anymore. I'm very sorry for your loss and if you need anything, please let me and my family know.
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Rajendra Vishakantaiah posted a condolence
Monday, January 14, 2019
My deepest condolence on your loss Rakesh. God bless his soul and strength to and your family.
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Prem chauhan posted a condolence
Monday, January 14, 2019
Rohin I saw you in Chubby’s wedding dancing , full of life , you have left us all of a sudden but you will be in prayers and thoughts always , rest in peace . Gaurika,Rakesh and Neha be strong to bear this irreversible loss ,my support and love is always with you
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Archana Neelu Chauhan lit a candle
Sunday, January 13, 2019
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Rohin I will never forget you. You shared your going away day with my Birthday. Your smiley face and gentle nature has left a mark on everyone around you. Aryana loved playing with you. You will be missed.
Love Neelu Bua
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Nicole Gibbings posted a condolence
Sunday, January 13, 2019
My heart goes out to Gaurika Aunty, Rakesh Uncle, Neha, and family at this time of incredible loss. I am so privileged to have met Rohin - I only wish I could have known him longer. Even though I knew Rohin only a short time, I will never forget his quiet thoughtfulness, his gentle nature towards his younger cousins, and of course his immeasurable strength. Sending my love and thoughts of peace to the Kushwaha family. May you be surrounded by love and family.
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Elmo posted a condolence
Sunday, January 13, 2019
He was the quintessential older brother...someone all the boys looked up to as a role model and looked to for answers when it came to life...they are the young men because of him. It would be an understatement to say that Rohin was a essential part of our lives, and he will remain just as important going forth. Rohin is and always will be the standard of what a son, brother, nephew, cousin, friend & young man should emulate in any situation. If there was ever a guarantee in life...it is that a soul like his comes into this world once. Rohin has left us with so much in a short period of time and his last lesson to us will persevere throughout time...Patience. Well knowing everything he still took it upon himself to let everyone know that he was ok...he didn’t see anything as a burden but a challenge...and that is how he shall be remembered...
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Szohaib Khan posted a condolence
Sunday, January 13, 2019
He brought light into the hearts of many. He brought light into every room. Although it may seem dark, his light will shine again through the memories we hold close.
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Amber Khan posted a condolence
Sunday, January 13, 2019
You were a big brother to many. A smart kid with a really good heart. You will be sincerely missed and remembered. I’m so glad I got to meet you.
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Naresh posted a condolence
Sunday, January 13, 2019
Chers Gaurika, Rakesh et Neha,
Nous sommes de tout coeur avec vous et partageons votre douleur face à la disparition de Rohin. Nous garderons le souvenir de Rohin, passionné de jeux vidéos lors de sa visite à PARIS en 2012.
Mais les mots manquent pour exprimer notre soutien et notre affection.Que Rohin repose en paix.
Marie, Naresh, Yoann et Jérôme
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Shail kumar posted a condolence
Sunday, January 13, 2019
Dear Rohin, we will always love you. Last time I saw you, you were full of life. You will be full of life forever. I see you so young and lively like a little son of my own. I miss you Rohin. Be safe at peace!
Shail grand Aunty
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Usha sharma posted a condolence
Sunday, January 13, 2019
Rohin left us too soon but he will always be in our thoughts and prayers . He was unique different than other boys of his age , very quiet humble , intelligent and caring . I can imagine what parents and sister Neha have gone through, I am many miles away but my love and support will always be with you, God bless - manju bua (Rohin and Neha's Dadi)
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Calestina Bhasin posted a condolence
Sunday, January 13, 2019
Gone too soon, leaving extraordinary memories forever. His smile, gentle demeanor, love & appreciation of life & just being a humble kid made him unique. You will always remain with us through memories & in spirit. RIP.
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Barry Bhangoo lit a candle
Sunday, January 13, 2019
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With all my love!
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Bali and babli posted a condolence
Sunday, January 13, 2019
Dear baby and deep
We are extremely saddened by you such an irreplaceable loss. Loosing a handsome beautiful son in Rohin is devestating.
Guddia and Rakesh we can take solace in the fact that he is rid of all his pain and is in the hands of god. God bless his soul.
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Dinesh kushwaha posted a condolence
Sunday, January 13, 2019
God bless his soul. He will always live on in our memories.
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Erica Loomba-Janda lit a candle
Sunday, January 13, 2019
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We are deeply sorry for your loss. Rohan was too young & bright & full of love to leave you. Our prayers are with you.
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Bhasin's lit a candle
Sunday, January 13, 2019
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Heart felt Condolecence to the family. May his soul rest in peace.
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Sim Virdee posted a condolence
Sunday, January 13, 2019
Dear Aunty, Uncle and Neha,
We are so saddened to hear of Rohan’s passing. We are lost for words and can’t imagine what you are all going through at the moment. I know we aren’t nearby, but we are sending lots of love and support and if there is anything we can do let us know.
Me and pj will always remember playing with Neha and Rohan when we were kids. Mom will always remember taking Pj and Rohan to nursery with Aunty. Rohan wanted to sit at the front with his mom, so my mom would sit at the back with PJ and Rohan would sit at the front with Aunty. We never really knew where Rohan and Pj got the idea that they wanted to take each other to Paris for dinner, but it was sweet and funny. We are so glad that we got to see you all a few years back in England, and to see Neha and Rohan grown up and doing so well.
We are truly sorry for your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers and we hope to see you all soon. Rest in peace dear Rohan.
Sending our love and support,
Jaspal, Narinder, Kabir, Simrath and Prabhjot xxx
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Kyle Wong posted a symbolic gesture
Saturday, January 12, 2019
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Tanya Khanna lit a candle
Saturday, January 12, 2019
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Noone can imagine the pain that you are going through at this dark hour....may his angel soul give you the strength to bear this pain ....
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Vijay Rajamani posted a symbolic gesture
Saturday, January 12, 2019
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Vijay Rajamani posted a condolence
Saturday, January 12, 2019
Dear Neha, Gaurika, and Rakesh,
Your Rohin is an amazing soul. His spiritual journey continues in realms unknown to us. As the old saying goes — only the good die young, Rohin was indeed a good, kind, warm-hearted and talented young man. I always enjoyed seeing him, talking to him and hearing about his exploits. I remember how sweet and kind he was to Aria when she visited as a young 7 or 8 year old girl. You all are blessed to have been a part of his life and he in turn, blessed to be in this beautiful family. He is a special, special person. He bore his illness with a quiet dignity, with no complaint and a strength that is other-worldly. I wish you all much strength and the good Lord’s blessings.
Lots of love and peace.
Vijay
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Robert and Carla Kabilyo posted a condolence
Saturday, January 12, 2019
Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time. We simply want to say,"Thank you Rohin for being such a
great friend to our son Daniel." It is a friendship that will live on in Daniel's heart. Here is a quote:
If ever there is tomorrow when we're not together... there is something you must always remember. You are braver than you believe, stronger than you seem,and smarter than you think. But the most important thing is,even if we're apart... I'll
always be with you.
With Our Deepest Sympathy,
Robert and Carla Kabilyo
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Lisa Marchese lit a candle
Saturday, January 12, 2019
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Badri Nath posted a condolence
Saturday, January 12, 2019
Words cannot begin to express my sadness. May God give you the strength to bear this untimely loss. I still remember the time when Rohin took my young son down to the basement in your house to play video games so that he would not be bored. He kept company with him through out the evening. Really blessed to have known him.
rest in peace, Rohin.
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Saturday, January 12, 2019
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