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Lori Pillittiere posted a condolence
Monday, May 31, 2010
Dear Mr. Ilaria,Greg,Michelle,Gina & Family, I was so sorry to hear about Mrs. Ilaria. There are so many fond memories I have of spending time in your home during my childhood days at St Leo's and HS times at SJV. Mrs. Ilaria was a rare gem who didn't just make me feel like I was part of the family she made me part of your family. I know that words can't ease your pain but I hope my memories bring a smile and bring some comfort to all of you. I can picture her now in her Talbots black check pants and her LLBean loafers. Marbles right at her heels. She looked great in reds & browns. I remember playing board games at the kitchen table,having the annual "Best Gord" contest from the centerpiece bowl on the table and watching her make the best salads on the planet for dinner. A trip to the beach was a treat with a cooler packed to perfection & Sodanos Subs. When we returned the two of you would sit poolside rate & score all of our dives as we ended the day with a splash. She intervened a few times when Michelle turned playing waitress into Gina & I doing her chores and the dishes, or when I tried to kiss Greg, or put Tilly & Peanut in Gregs Newspaper delivery bag. Visits to Aunt Evelyn always making sure her hair was done. Speaking of hair she tried to help me find a solution for my unruly mane!! As we got older she was the cheerleading tryout coach, back up singer to Blondie on the radio and I loved the times we all sat in the den talking and I had my spot at the round table in the corner. She made a difference in my life-gave me great memories and I loved her. Love Lori XOXO
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Kristi Kennedy posted a condolence
Sunday, May 30, 2010
Mr. Ilaria and Gina, Greg and Michelle and family Please accept our deepest condolences on your loss. Janet was a wonderful person and was always so kind to me and my family. She will be missed. Sincerely, Kristi and Dan Labs and kids
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Luanne Gibson Nadeau posted a condolence
Saturday, May 29, 2010
Please accept our sincere condolences from The Gibson Family, Nashua, NH Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time, Mark and Luanne Gibson Nadeau, Haymarket, VA.
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Dee & Stan Kolodjeski posted a condolence
Saturday, May 29, 2010
Dear Tom Our deepest condolences to you and your family. We regretted hearing the sad news. Dee and Janet shared many laughs and many jokes at the office. Janet had a great sense of humor and Mike's group always enjoyed her company when she came upstairs for a cup of coffee or just to say hello. We know Janet will be missed by all those who knew her and especially by you as you were a very devoted couple. Again our prayers and sympathy. Fondly Dee and Stan
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Lisa Muir posted a condolence
Saturday, May 29, 2010
Dr. Ilaria and family, We are so sorry for your loss. Mrs. Ilaria was kind and generous to us as children in Colts Neck. And Tom and I enjoyed the funny and loving stories at Pre-Cana - she even helped me with my wedding veil. Our heartfelt condolences to you all. Lisa (Dugan) and Tom Muir
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MARK W. GILLESPIE posted a condolence
Saturday, May 29, 2010
DEAR UNCLE TOM AND FAMILY, MY FAMILY AND I WOULD LIKE TO EXTEND OUR DEEPEST CONDOLENCES AT THE PASSING OF AUNT JANET. THE WORLD IS A LESSOR PLACE. THE VOID IS VAST. OUR GRIEF IS GREAT BUT JUST THE TIME THAT WE SPENT WITH AUNT JANET WILL SUSTAIN US FOR YEARS TO COME. HER LOVE WAS DEEP AND HER LOYALTY WAS FIERCE. WE WILL ALWAYS LOVE HER AND YOUR FAMILY. SHE IS WATCHING OVER US WITH MY DAD AND UNCLE DICK. GOD BLESS YOU AND KEEP YOU SAFE. MARK GILLESPIE AND FAMILY
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M.J.Linton and family posted a condolence
Friday, May 28, 2010
Aunt Janet, Words can't describe the hole that your passing has left in our hearts. We will never forget the days on Sylvania, cookouts in Colts Neck, rocking on the poarch at 112 Woodland Ave (Actually it goes bach to painting seashells on LBI) Shakespere in the park,Strollos, and just spending time talking. Thank you for bringing the "Gillespie Family" back together. We promise to keep this group together as we know you, my dad and Uncle Dick would want it. We will miss you and love you .....ALWAYS!
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Annette Kiniery posted a condolence
Friday, May 28, 2010
To the Ilaria family I am very sorry for your loss. Gary and Annette Kiniery Gina & Rob's babysitter.
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Dyan Simms posted a condolence
Friday, May 28, 2010
Dr. Ilaria and Family - We are so sorry for your loss. Mrs. Ilaria was such a wonderful person - she will be greatly missed. Dyan and Fred Simms
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Lee Ann Stephens posted a condolence
Friday, May 28, 2010
Even though we are not blood related family, Aunt Janet will always be my favorite Aunt. I feel very blessed to have had her and you all in my life.
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Jan & Richard Havlick posted a condolence
Friday, May 28, 2010
Dear Tom and Family, Our hearts are heavy for your sudden loss and our deepest condolences go to you all. We only met Tom & Janet recently and we were looking forward to more dinners together. Janet was so proud of her family and she will be missed, but her memory will live on in the hearts of those who loved and knew her. We pray you will find comfort in knowing that she is in a happy place. You all are in our prayers.
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Marge Dugan posted a condolence
Friday, May 28, 2010
Dear Tom and family, I was sorry to hear of the passing of Janet. She was a dear friend and overall beautiful person. My deepest sympathy to all of you at this time of loss.
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John Romando and Family posted a condolence
Friday, May 28, 2010
Dear Tom,Greg, Barbara and Family: Please accept our condolences and of course Janet and you are in our prayers. Gods Peace be with you
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Gesa Arneke posted a condolence
Friday, May 28, 2010
Dear Gina, my deepest sympathy to you and your family. Janet was one of the nicest persons I've ever met in my life and I remember the time that I was allowed to spend with her... the year with her and your father, you and your children - the greatest year of my life. Thank God I was allowed to get to know her. In love Gesa
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jeannie farrell posted a condolence
Thursday, May 27, 2010
Dr Ilaria&family , I am so sorry for your loss.I loved Janet.She had a way of making you feel good about yourself.Our condolences are with you.jeannie&Bill Farrell&family
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Jennifer Dodd posted a condolence
Thursday, May 27, 2010
We are so saddened to hear about Aunt Janet. She was a true inspiration and possessed a heart of gold. I will always remember Christmas shopping and laughing in the rain with her. Our thoughts are with all of you at this time.
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Kathy&Paul Manganelli posted a condolence
Thursday, May 27, 2010
Dear Tom and Family, We were so very sorry to hear about losing Janet. She was a great lady and will be missed. She will be in our prayers, along with you and your family. With deepest sympathy, Kathy and Paul Manganelli
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Evelyn, José & Joe Estrada posted a condolence
Thursday, May 27, 2010
Fate opened our doors as neighbors, life opened our hearts as friends. Tom & Janet became a part of our lives very quickly when they moved in across the street from us. We have shared the joys of our families and the sorrows when we lose one of our loved ones. We have laughed and cried together in the past 16 years without reserve. Our lives have been truly blessed knowing Janet.
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Vincent&Frances Setteducato posted a condolence
Thursday, May 27, 2010
We are very sorry for your loss. Ours Hearts go out to you and your family. Sincerely, Vincent & Frances Setteducato
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Gerda and Steve Mabil posted a condolence
Thursday, May 27, 2010
Dear Tom: Our deepest sympathy to you and your family. Janet was a Great person and we will miss her. Gerda and Steve Mabil
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Jill Imperial posted a condolence
Thursday, May 27, 2010
Dear Tom and Family, Our deepest condolences go out to all of you. Janet will be greatly missed by all who knew her. She was a remarkable person who always went the extra mile to help whenever she could. I know first hand, because both of you were there for me and my family after my dad’s stroke. Her memory will live on in everyone who knew her and loved her. I believe that God will comfort you during this difficult time and you will find peace in knowing that she is in a better place. Our thoughts and prayers are with you! Love, The Imperial Family Jill, Joan and Joe
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Karen Van Curen posted a condolence
Thursday, May 27, 2010
Dr. Ilaria & family - I was so very sorry to hear of Janet's passing. What a beautiful woman she was. She was always very gracious and welcoming when I would come to your house to babysit so many years ago. I will remember her and all your family in my prayers. May God give you strength through this difficult time. Sincerely, Karen (nee Dugan) Van Curen
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Karen Moore Williams posted a condolence
Thursday, May 27, 2010
Dear Dr. Ilaria & family My Mother is in Denver attending a church convention. I couldn't bring myself to tell her the news about her buddy Janet. She will be greatly missed, but we believe, 2nd Corinthians 5:8 to be absent from the body is to be present with the Lord. I am trusting that God will comfort your family and give you peace so that you may rejoice and find delight in the memories Janet has left in your hearts and in so many others. In my Mother's absence, my brother Keith and I send this acknowledgement along with our prayers. May God Continue to Bless you & Keep you The Moore Family Delphine, Keith and Karen
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Ed Wyrwa posted a condolence
Thursday, May 27, 2010
Dear Tom and Family, Please accept our condolences. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Love, Eileen and Ed Wyrwa
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Christina Galbornetti posted a condolence
Thursday, May 27, 2010
Dearest Janet, thank you for sharing in all the special moments of my life...graduations, birthdays, my wedding, the arrival of my baby daughter and even just our small chats at the pool and curbside at our homes. Being your neighbor and friend all these years has been a blessing to my family. You, your smiling face and warm gentle spirit will be sorely missed. May God welcome you with His open arms and bless your family as they mourn for you. Love, Christina Galbornetti and family
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Kristen E Oxendine and family posted a condolence
Thursday, May 27, 2010
Aunt Janet, Words can't express how much you touched my life. I am so heart broken but will always be happy to remember all the laughs and good times. I will be sure to pass on all the great songs you taught me growing up - Beans in your Ears is still one of my favorite. I am so grateful for our visit in January. Talking to you and Uncle Tom about marriage and especially parenting has really been so helpful and I can't thank you enough. I miss you so much and you will always hold a special place in my heart. Love always, Kristen
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Jack Riismandel posted a condolence
Thursday, May 27, 2010
Our prayers and thoughts are with you, Aunt Janet. You will be missed. Our family will be joining yours to celebrate your wonderful life. God Bless and watch over you and your family. Jack, Kathy and kids
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Sr Bernadette Larson MSN posted a condolence
Thursday, May 27, 2010
I was sorry to read about Janet's death. Please be assured of the prayers of the SJV family for all of you during this time.
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